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Embracing Short Term Problems

Embracing Short Term Problems

If you’ve been a leader for long, you’ve likely encountered a situation where your valiant attempts at delegation backfired on you. As you abandon your priorities in order to clean up the mess that was left behind, you can’t help but wonder, “Is it worth it?” You’ve heard all the great speeches about empowering others. You know the all-too-familiar cliché, “You have to give up to go up.” But no one really tells you how to handle it when delegation results in failure. How do you handle when those you lead make mistakes? What mistakes are necessary and good for development and which mistakes are flat out failures?

What do you do with the proverbial ball that’s been dropped or the wobbly plate that finally spun off its axis? The analogies are well known for a reason. These are the difficult parts of leadership. They don’t come with quick fixes or formulas. They come with instincts and intuition.

Early in my career I encountered the delegation dilemma. Excited to be newly promoted and have a paid employee who answered directly to me, I arrogantly began barking orders. Within a couple of days my frustration was growing. This new, wonderful employee was not doing things exactly as I had directed or requested. Certain that he would see it my way, I went straight to my boss to complain about my employee. I expected my boss to pull the employee in and remind him that I was the boss and that he needed to do things my way. Instead my boss turned it into a teaching moment for me. I’ll never forget what he said, “You aren’t working with widgets. You’re working with people.”

He didn’t need to say anymore. I wanted my employee to be a robot.  I wanted him to do what I said exactly the way I said it. But leaders don’t lead robots. Leaders lead intelligent people who have their own opinions and ideas – people who can add more knowledge to a task – people who want to spread their wings and learn it by doing it their own way. I learned that day that leadership isn’t about barking orders; it’s about whispering possibilities.

Leadership isn’t about barking orders; it’s about whispering possibilities.

Leaders understand that one of their chief responsibilities is developing people. And sometimes developing people means loosening the reins on your personal preferences and giving those you lead the latitude to fail and learn for themselves. Personally, I would rather avoid a mess than clean up a mess, but many times we actually need to embrace the mess. In our learning, sometimes we have to make a mess.

I would rather avoid a mess than clean up a mess, but many times we actually need to embrace the mess.

Every Christmas, I plan a baking day with one of my friends’ little girls. It’s become a tradition that we both look forward to; however the one thing I don’t look forward to is the extraordinary mess that we make! Flour, powdered sugar, candy sprinkles, and frosting blanket the kitchen by the time we are done. The process would certainly be much neater if I directed my 8-year-old friend to sit nicely and watch me do all the work. Everything would be neat and tidy and cleanup would be a breeze. But if I did that she would never truly learn how to make the cookies. Without getting her hands dirty by rolling, cutting, and baking the dough, she would simply be a spectator.

In delegating, we have to embrace the mess. We have to prepare ourselves for things to not work out perfectly every time. We have to understand that things will get a little messy.

Great leaders are great guides. They discern when to make helpful suggestions.

Great leaders are great guides. They discern when to make helpful suggestions. They know when to assist. They use their intuition and instincts to allow just enough mess to create an environment of learning.

But what exactly does that look like? How do you know when to guide and when to direct? Here are some questions I ask myself when I’m facing the delegation dilemma:

  • Am I more concerned with how I will look or how the employee or volunteer will look? In other words, am I afraid a little bit of failure will make me look bad? If it’s more about my image than about helping someone grow, I need to reevaluate my leadership priorities.
  • Will what the employee or volunteer gains in experience outweigh the consequence to the organization? Any miss or failure is likely to have some impact on the organization, but is it one that can be easily absorbed in order to help the employee learn from it? Will the short-term cost be worth the long-term gain? Count the cost and make the best decision for everyone involved.
  • Will letting the ball drop allow them to learn? Will it develop them further? Will allowing a mistake be the best way for them to learn? Sometimes it will be. Other times you can teach them just as well by explaining the potential pros and cons of an idea or action before it’s taken.

Leadership is not easy. It’s messy and complicated. People are unique and different and therefore you will need to lead everyone just a bit differently to find the best way to develop them. While delegation may be messy, the payoff of seeing someone grow and learn is worth any clean up required.

About The Author

Jenni Catron

Jenni previously served as the executive director of Cross Point Church in Nashville, Tennessee. She is the co-author of Just Lead! A No Whining, No Complaining, No Nonsense Practical Guide for Women Leaders in the Church and the book Clout (click here for a free sample chapter). Jenni’s passion is to lead well and to inspire, equip, and encourage others to do the same.

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